5 Simple Ways You Can Improve Your Sex Life Immediately

5 Simple Ways You Can Improve Your Sex LifeImmediately

Your sex life is as fundamental an aspect as is exercise for your health and well-being. Sexually intimacy need not always be dependent on cliché texts, fancy positions, expensive lingerie, using props or circus tricks in the bedroom. The simplest of acts have the most lasting effect; helping you sustains your relationship over time.

A healthy sex life has the power to reinvigorate and maintain the passion in your relationship. Whether you have an enviable sex life or need to add a touch of spice to it, here are simple ways that can dramatically enhance the pleasure associated with your sex life. 

#1. Take the fun outside the bedroom

Unpredictability can be the key to boosting your sex life and making it spontaneous sex sessions an important part of your routine. Try another location in the house or even outside for added kinkiness. Watching yourself in the bathroom for instance while you’re at it, mirrors for instance are a manor turn-on. 

#2. Add the element of surprise while dressing or undressing

Leaving something on, even it’s just one article of clothing, like your underwear can add another element to your sex life. It can be quite a turn for your partner to work around it. Just make sure you know what your partner prefers you leave on. Getting naked spontaneously naked, in an area like your kitchen can turn both you and your partner on instantaneously make your experience a riveting one.

#3. Keep the flirting going

While getting comfortable is part of being in a long-term relationship it’s important to inject some those early butterflies you invoked as partners. Small gestures, random compliments or appreciation, whispering to your partner, using body gestures (like caressing or stroking your partner) or just shameless flirting cannot ignite but help keep the fires burning! Try whispering something dirty into your partners’ ear, out of the blue and witness their reaction.

#4. Schedule sex dates on the calendar

Have no time to get it on? Schedule your sexsessions. Scheduling your sex sessions are a great way to make sure you nail that agenda and tick it off your list and makes it something you look forward to, helping build anticipation and excitement around the act itself. This even fixes the frequency of sessions if that's an issue 

#5. Get competitive with each other

Getting competitive with your partner can do wonders for your sex drive and sexual intent towards each other. Challenge each other to game of cards, a drinking game or a sporting activity like basketball. Doing so should more often than not bring out the animalistic side of your partner, which will make making love fun and engaging experience.